Coping with the workload

[DArtz]

Going to graduate school is like taking on a second full time job if you are already a teacher. My best advice to you is to let friends and family know that there will be some changes to your regular routines for a while. You won't be able to make spontaneous trips to movies, shopping, etc. because of your study/work load. When you have class (whether on campus or on-line), that is your time and will not be skipped or shortened because of special events or activities. Making this clear up front helps a lot! Now, for yourself, one the otherhand. . .don't forget to schedule some "me" time so that you don't begin to resent the time your graduate work is taking from your life! Taking a break with a bath, a little TV, a walk, returning a phone call, etc. -- can help renew your resolve and keep you on track.

When I was studying for written comps, I had friends who took charge of my husband's social life! They took him to dinner or movies or ball games so I could study and so that he didn't resent my being too busy all the time.

[Barbara Feldman]

I like your ideas about notifying friends and family. If everyone knows your goals, it makes it easier for them to support you.

[BrendaO]

I'm not in graduate school by any means but the workload can sometimes still feel overwhelming!

I'm in college part time two evenings a week, working full time and taking care of a household. Sometimes it feels like a walk in the park and some days it feels like I will never make it.

I'm working on some techniques to help myself:
1. Ask for help.
2. Say no to things that are above and beyond my regular scope of duties when school work is very heavy.
3. Be realistic - I ask myself if it's really as bad as it feels. E.g. is the house really as messy as I think.
4. Schedule time every day for school work so it isn't last minute cramming.

I'm far from perfect but I'm working on it!

[Barbara Feldman]

In terms of housework, I like to remember that there's a huge difference between "messy" and "health hazard!"